"What a lot we lost when we stopped writing letters. You can't reread a phone call."
- Liz Carpenter -
If you give your phone number to a guy, and he's not calling you back few days later or so, Most of all, this guy is not attracted to you or he's busy.
As I always said, there's a reason to everything. Men don't call you back not because they do not respect... There are 4 things you Ladies are doing that push them back, and they won't tell you!
One of the biggest issues women have with men is "why guys don't call back?"
I was talking with my cousin yesterday on the phone. We had this discussion about a date she had three weeks ago. I always heard women asking questions like: "We had a great night, what's wrong with him?", "Does he date someone else?", "Was there anything wrong with my make-up?", etc.
Guys will use all kind of excuses while they don't want to see you. But here are the 4 reasons men won't tell you...
Women talk too much
During your date, men love to ask that you tell more about yourself, they want details about you. Now, what next? You start talking, which is not bad. But please, don't talk too much. when, they ask, it's too let you talk. But Ladies, avoid too much details.
A solution for this: Answer briefly, then ask him a question. Play a "Answer-question" during your date. Thus, you will learn more about him. :)
Don't go in the details of what men did to you in the past
Even if men ask to tell them about your past relationships during a date, Don't do it. In general, I noticed that when guys ask women questions about their intimacy, they become shy... Then, if a guy insits, she becomes more confident and starts talking about all the bad things every man ever did to her. Men don't want this.
Ok, Ladies you wonder why they ask those things, huh? Simply just because, they want you to talk. You are on a date, so they find a way to chat about everything by asking questions.
To sumarise, don't talk about wrong things during a date. Just have fun!
Having sex to soon
According to a certain social code, it's better to not having sex to soon.
About this, part of me agrees with "Don't have sex to soon" and another do not agree. You know, life's experience talks. You can date a man, have sex the first day and build a strong relationship. In another hand, you can let him wait weeks, a month or more, and have a bad relationship.
I think it depends on your feelings and the way both of you felt the attraction...
Please leave your opinion about this subject. What's your point?
You don't smile
Smile, it's really important. Men love to see women smiling. They feel like they are contributing positively in your life.
Even if you had a bad day, be honest with him and continue by giving him a compliment (about the way he is dressed) and sharing a good time with him.
I leave you with a great video. It's a range of men thoughts on this subject...
Feel free to leave your own opinions and comments by leaving a message below. I’m all ears… and I’m listening.
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For more about 'what men won't tell you', Read the ebook How To Make Your Boyfriend Respect And Cherish You
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Why Guys Don't Call You Back
Why Guys Don't Call You Back
2008-06-16T21:30:00-04:00
Stella
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