
"When the eyes say one thing, and the tongue another, a practiced man relies on the language of the first."
- Ralph Waldo Emerson -
We are not aware of the effect that our own body and gestures have on others. I am sure each of you have all heard about this subject: Body Language. right? It's vital that you know how to act when you get to a conference, an interview (for example when you need a job, you have to pass an interview as a primary test), a dating, etc.
As the Expert Lisa Clampitt said, "a body Language is an incredible opportunity to connect with someone". Take a look at the graphic here.
Body Language is an important part of every communication which, according to various studies and Dr. Esther B. Dang, accounts for around 60% of what we are communicating, 33% the Way We Speak (our voice) and 7% the Words We Use.
Watch the video below and listen to Experts advice, plus you have the film Hitch as an illustration with the movie actors Will Smith and Eva Mendes.
Did you get it?
If not, watch the video again, as much as you want (anyway it's free! loll) because according to me it's an important point that we do not really realize! All along, we complain of lot of things like... "F**k that staff!! They refused me a job, I don't understand why!!" or... "why is he/she not seduced by me anymore?!?", etc. OK guys! I understand that you can have other reasons for this kind of preoccupation, but don't forget the stats above!
Tone of voice and body language (which include eye contact, face, posture, hand gestures, personal space and the body contact) are also important factors in non-verbal communication. To complete these tips, I also suggest to learn this articles:
- For you Ladies, 4 secrets men keeps and why you should let them. You will find a direct link where you can watch Men testimonials too on iVillage video ;)
- For Gentlemen, Personality and the biggest male mistake with women
- For all of us, Eye Language and How to detect lies with Eye Movement.
Cheers!
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